Ramai yang tanya i. "Kenapa u muda-muda lagi nak kahwin?" "Tak susah ke kahwin awal?". I rasa jawapan yang paling common keluar dari mulut I adalah "We love each other, so why not?". Memang ramaiiiii sangat yang cakap love alone cannot guarantee the future of a marriage. I agree juga. Memang, love alone tak menjamin. Tapi duit boleh cari beb! Memang setiap parents akan jadi paranoia kepada pasangan yang nak berkahwin awal. So were my parents, especially my dad yang memang terkejut besar dan menentang habis-habisan atas usul yang I ketengahkan pada dia when I asked for his permission to get married. What do you expect? Im 21 masa tu dan bapak I memang lah terpaling garang punya bapak di alam semesta yang I pernah jumpa.
Bapak I memang bagi seribu satu alasan dan beratus-ratus lagi kerisauan. Takut I tak habis study, almaklum lah I tak habis study lagi dah gatal nak kahwin. Takut I akan lupa family. Takut I susah nak dapat kerja bila I dah kahwin pasal I bukannya ada cable besarrrr macam orang lain. Takut bermacam takut lagi lah. So terpaksa lah I berani kan diri untuk tegakkan pendirian I. Orang kata I ni keras kepala, bossy, semua nak ikut kata I, semua I je yang betul, tapi bagi I, itu adalah prinsip hidup I. I memang susah sangat nak agree dengan orang lain unless someone tu utter kan benda yang relevan serelevannya and make me believe. Ok takde kena mengena.
So pasal kahwin ni, I pekakkan telinga dan butakan mata je dengan mereka-mereka yang kurang berpuas hati menempelak dengan hebat that my decision was WRONG! So everything that doesn't go well tetap end well disebabkan ketabahan hati i dan moral support dari mak I dan family yang lain. I thank them so much sampai ke hari ini.
Actually I pun tak sangka yang at the end I end up jugak dengan ahlil muzik. LOL bak kata game the sims my husband is a virtuoso. Walaupun I dah kahwin dan bak kata suhaida anak pakcik kamarudin, the sims adalah game untuk orang-orang yang forever alone, I tetap suka main game tu until now. Whatever. I sangat adore husband I (I bet ppl must say "alah, mesti lah adore husband sendiri takkan nak adore husband orang pulak") sebabnya panjang berjela so I prefer not to write it down.
Tanggal 2hb July, we were engaged and since then we were counting days to become married couple. Orang tua-tua kata time engaged banyak dugaannya but for me I rasa sebenarnnya sama je. Setakat small fight, big fight tu masa belum bertunang dan lepas kahwin pun kena hadap jugak, it's no different. Cuma lepas kahwin I don't know, masing-masing dah cool down atau dah rasa secure. Yelah, tak lari gunung dikejar derrr!
After six month kitorang engaged, decision made to tie our love with marriage on 10th of Feb 2012. Kiss goodbye to all my lovers! cewahh bajet player pulak. I dah minta MUA I bagi I look like a Barbie doll tapi dia kata takleh buat apa dah pasal muka I tak ada iras pun so I redha jelah. Pilu.Tapi ok lah sebab I rasa malam tu adalah malam paling cantik I selama 22 tahun I atas muka bumi ni.
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| During the solemnization night. |
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| Nampak je macam berat, tiup pun melayang sanggul ni. |
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| Senonoh tidak nya pengantin. |
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| Forever in my heart <3 |
As the princess of the day, I changed my outfit 4 times you know, 4 times! I cuma mampu tersenyum jelah walaupun tersangat lah letih.However, I believe in 'sekali seumur hidup' when my mum persuaded me to wear that many outfits and let the MUA conteng-conteng my face bak cina punya opera dan 'pasang' the fake eyelashes yang hampir made me become a sleeping beauty atas pelamin on my wedding day.
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| Believe me its candid. My favourite wedding outfit. |
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| Cantik kan cantik kan. I know. hihi |
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| Friends from Girl High School. |
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| Do i look like Cik Tah? ehemm. |
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| Only switch hands post. Funny. |
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| Ketawa dalam tangisan tahu! Sakit tau tak pakai crown kemende tah tu. |
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| Call me Queen T. :D |
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| Why am I tanned? Benci benci! |
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| Love the expression. |
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| Who says the bride and groom must behave so fake? Pengantin lah yang paling lapar tahu. |
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| Gaya macam tengah lepak mamak. Hai lah pengantin. |
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| Lets build bright future together syg. |
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| The crews. |
The pictures were taken randomly by Odin, arwah Aizad and Suhail. They were unpaid because they were friends walhal the pictures taken were amazingggggg!!Thank you bunches guys!! We also want to thanks everybody yang telah berpenat lelah to make the wedding happen and went well. Sesungguh nya I love kamu semua. Mereka-mereka yang telah datang dari segenap pelusuk daerah juga, terima kasih, konfem wa datang kawin lu olang bawak satu set pinggan mangkuk. No worries.
Kepada gadis-gadis diluar sana, don't be afraid if you think youre doing the right things. Consult the olders, get moral support and be firm and believe your choices. Who says we wont get flying colours results if we get married before we graduate? Who says we wont get a good job if we are married? Prove it. Who always put only negative thoughts about early marriage, just slap them fast-fast okay. :)) Oh btw, I already got my degree with good result and going to set my foot in banking industry next month. Wish me luck! :)
